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As Google acts, the question is: have we lost our privacy to the internet?

Sun, 04 Mar 2012 23:29:34 -0500

As Google acts, the question is: have we lost our privacy to the internet?:

The rise of the internet, from obscurity to ubiquity in the course of a few decades, has had profound effects on our society and on us as individuals. No one could have predicted how significant it would become, and no one can predict with any certainty how it will develop.

This is true of the underlying technologies, but it is equally and, arguably more importantly, true of the changes that the internet has on how we communicate and interact with each other. It has brought us an overwhelming range of benefits, providing a universal tool to communicate, to organise our lives and to access entertainment.

What concerns me most is that this tool brings with it risks that we simply haven’t grasped. Social networks encourage us to share every aspect of our lives with our friends, but, by providing that service, those networks see everything that we share, and use that information to categorise, profile and predict us. These services aren’t “free” – we pay for them with our personal data, and the profits are huge.

It could be argued, and often is by the heads of large technology companies, that privacy is dead and that the benefits of social networks and similar services easily outweigh the perceived loss of privacy. I would argue that we do not yet fully understand the power of the data we have shared, and that by unwittingly giving this information to Google, Facebook and others we are shaping the future of our society in ways we cannot predict.

For the entirety of human history, we have operated on small scales and in relative anonymity. Our words are heard by the few people close to us and most are quickly forgotten. We walk down the street without passers-by knowing our names or history. The internet has started to change that. Our words and actions can easily be shared with billions of people around the globe and archived indefinitely. The details of our lives can be found simply by typing our name into Google.

Should Parents Lose Custody of Obesity Children? – ABC News

Fri, 15 Jul 2011 20:54:31 -0400

Should Parents Lose Custody of Obesity Children? – ABC News:

Over my dead, obese body! Bring it on you skinny bastards!

I don't care - no, really.

Tue, 26 Oct 2010 00:00:00 -0400

Ladies,

When a man says “I don’t care” – he really means it. There is no hidden meaning. This is not indecision on his part. It simply means that he doesn’t care…

- where we eat
- when we go
- what we do
- when we stop
- how it’s done
- which dress you wear
- and so on, and so on, ad nauseum.

There is no derision, no ill-will, no ulterior motive. He means what he says…nothing more, nothing less. He truly doesn’t care. :) RJC

This is AWESOME! We MUST stand up for God and for Country! Crazy...

Sat, 23 Oct 2010 00:00:00 -0400

This is AWESOME! We MUST stand up for God and for Country! Crazy liberal boneheads are intent on turning our country into a mamby-pamby socialist disaster – I, for one, am not OK with it. Civil disobedience – who’s with me? RJC

Leaded or Unleaded

Mon, 23 Aug 2010 00:00:00 -0400

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And another story from college. RJC

On this planet there are dark skinned people, light skinned people and every shade in between. Short people, tall people, skinny people and fat people exist in every society. These things make us unique; they make us who we are. For all of our differences, however, we are somewhat the same. We all eat, sleep and drink. On the whole we all have two eyes, two ears, ten fingers, and ten toes. Men and women worldwide love children, family, and friends. Facing the challenges, heartbreaks and tragedies of everyday life define our humanity. Cultural differences, sexual differences, and racial differences represent but a few of the problems that we must contend with on a daily basis. These important issues capture our headlines and rightfully warrant our attention.

However, I believe that they pale in comparison to the true division of our species. I propose that the entire population of planet Earth can be divided into two groups. I believe that this division, in all probability, is the cause of every World War, famine in the Middle East, and the U.P.S. strike (not to mention EL NIÑO and the depletion of the ozone layer). Quite possibly it can be identified as the root of every world crisis. I say that the time has come to solve the world’s problems. We simply need to separate, at all costs, these two groups of people.

In this world there are those who wake up at the crack of dawn and those who would sleep until noon if given half an opportunity. They are commonly referred to as ”morning people” and “night people”.

“Morning people.” Everyone knows this type of person. They have a demeanor about them that only another morning person could love. Morning people start each day smiling and happy. Their catch-phrases include: “Rise and shine!” and “The early bird gets the worm!” These people set the alarm clock but know that it’s not necessary. They bolt out of bed at 6:00am sharp (or earlier — gasp!), ready to face the glorious, beautiful, sunny day. They whistle while they make the bed.

They skip to the shower and wash themselves, singing “Oh, what a beautiful morning…” in perfect key. They never get soap in their eyes and their towels always smell like a fresh, spring day. Advertising executives get paid big money to dream up scenes of this nature. Why the morning person takes a shower in the first place remains a mystery. After all, everyone knows that they wake up with perfect hair and minty- fresh breath.

The coffee maker brews the latest designer flavor (decaffeinated, of course) as the morning person peruses the newspaper and chuckles at the “Family Circus” comic strip. They leave for work humming “Hi-ho, hi- ho, it’s off to work we go” and listen to self- improvement tapes while in the car.

At work, the morning person arrives at least 20 minutes early. This extra time is necessary to straighten their desks (perpetually spotless) and to greet, in the most annoying manner possible, every single person they see. “Good morning!” they say, with an emphasis on the first word. Huge, gaping smiles, full of mesmerizing, white teeth adorn their cheerful faces. These smiles are genuine and why not? Another glorious day has just been graced by their presence.

These people thrive on an active schedule. They talk fast, think fast, and must constantly be moving. They arrange, down to the very second, the entire day and stick to that plan vehemently. Stress arises when they must deviate from their ironclad, grand scheme. The source of this anxiety can invariably be traced to the other type of person.

“Night people”. This term is actually a misnomer. Night people should be labeled as “late- morning” people. They slither out of bed at the latest possible moment. The siren song of the night person is the snooze bar on the alarm clock. It lures the bleary eyed awake only to dash them to bits on the jagged rocks of another late-rising day. Typically, night people set their clocks ahead by half an hour and are late anyway. The bed is never made.

The ensuing chaos would seem comical to the morning person. Sprinting from the bedroom to the bathroom, the night person jumps in the shower, drops the soap at least half a dozen times, lathers up with a combination shampoo and conditioner, and air-dries while they’re looking for something to wear. There is no singing.

Their clothes are usually wrinkled. If they are young and single it’s entirely possible that they will be wearing the same outfit they had on the day before. Sheet marks are visible on their haggard looking faces, gouging deep troughs in the skin next to their puffy, bloodshot eyes.

The car is not just a means of transportation to people afflicted with this condition. It serves as a makeshift bathroom, providing much needed time. Various things can be accomplished while driving, prompting other drivers to gaze with wide-eyed wonder at the spectacle in the next car (morning people, no doubt). Women put on make-up and men shave with their electric razors. Self- improvement tapes are out of the question.

Night people arrive at work exactly on time or even a little late. Piles of paper litter their desks and a bottomless cup of coffee (never decaffeinated) serves as the centerpiece. They avoid saying “good morning”, opting instead for the more appropriate ”mornin’”. More often, however, an elementary, primal grunt of acknowledgement greets passersby. Smiles rarely grace the face of night people and this can be attributed to one of two things: 1) there is no reason to smile, or 2) they didn’t have time to brush their teeth.

On a positive note, the average night owl handles stress skillfully. I firmly believe that if faced with a burning house, a mouthy teenager that just wrecked the car, and a dog with bladder control problems, the night person would shrug it off, knowing that tomorrow will be another day. (Another day– yes– but not necessarily a better one). Impatient, cheery, bright-eyed and bushy-tailed morning people stress the night person, but not to the point of anger. Anger wastes energy and is simply not worth the effort.

The zest for life that symbolizes the lifeblood of the morning person holds no meaning for the night person. They just don’t get it.

Obviously, separating these two types of people completely represents monumental, even impossible task. Everyday life demands that they interact. The only choice is to learn to get along, each accepting the other for what they are. It will be a long and toilsome journey for most. The road to compatibility will be bumpy and full of hairpin turns. Perhaps we can find a happy medium and solve all of our problems.

I hold no hope for the future, however. After all, the morning people will be halfway down the road before the night people are even out of bed.

The Captain's Chair

Tue, 10 Aug 2010 00:00:00 -0400

Image by somjuan via Flickr

I recently found some papers I wrote while taking college courses. Fun to re-read them. Thought I’d share them here. Here’s my favorite. RJC

It loomed in the corner of my small apartment. The big brown monster seemed to lurk mischievously there, waiting for its next victim. It practically invited the unwitting and uninitiated to join it in its dark, gloomy solitude. The spine-breaking ride of a lifetime awaited the sorry person who answered the invitation.

The Captain’s Chair began its life as an ordinary recliner. It belonged to my Dad, who put it to good, normal use for many years. I can vividly remember him relaxing in it, smoking a Camel and reading the evening paper. The chair occupied a spot in the living room of my parent’s house for many years. It served as a sort of room divider, separating the kitchen from the rest of the house. When I started high school the chair began its long, useful life in our house. When I graduated high school the chair had been moved only to vacuum under it. When I returned from military service five years later the chair still occupied the same spot. The Captain had grown accustomed to its surroundings.

It was after I returned from the Navy, however, that ownership of the chair transferred and the personality of the chair took on a sinister, roguish quality. In its youth this chair nicely accommodated every backside with its plush, comfortable cushions. When one would sit down, the Captain’s Chair emitted an almost inaudible “whoosh” that usually coincided with a very audible sigh of relief. It was the whisper of a good friend saying, “Have a seat. Kick off your shoes and stay a while.” All kinds of rears felt comfortable there; skinny rumps, fat rumps and average sized rumps. This chair embodied perfection. When I took possession of the chair it was still in working order. Although showing the signs of middle age, the Captain seemed to be aging gracefully. There was no sign of a mid- life crisis. When I removed it from its familiar surroundings, however, “El Capitan” shed its graceful demeanor and began the long transformation into the fiend that it became.

My life as a bachelor would have seemed unruly, even barbaric, to most. Nightly meals consisted of Kraft macaroni and cheese and a Tyson chicken patty. Parties petered out at ridiculous hours of the morning. A state of debauchery and a general lack of self-control reigned supreme. These excessively degenerate qualities, coupled with intemperance and a blatant disregard for personal hygiene, doomed my apartment and the Captain’s Chair to a state of perpetual disrepair. Graceful middle age quickly took a kamikaze- like nosedive into old age and senility. In the span of a year I managed to destroy that chair.

What once was a nice, comfortable place to relax, became a crooked, grouchy eyesore. I spent innumerable hours in the Captain’s Chair doing innumerable things. Obviously not in the market for self- improvement, I spent countless hours lounging and watching the latest drivel on television. Video games were a necessity, and what better place than one’s favorite chair to numb the mind. Killing brain cells was also a favorite pastime in those days. If I could have wrung out the cushions like a dirty dishtowel, a case of Miller might have gushed out. Cigarette burns blemished the arms like festering, open sores and the once velvet-like fabric assumed a matted down look that resembled the fur of a wet cat. Under the cushion one could find a plethora of forgotten items; a comb, three month old dry roasted peanuts, last February’s issue of Discover magazine, and $2.43 in loose change. I never had the courage to get down on my hands and knees and actually look under the Captain. I suppose I might have found the rest of the peanuts and the remote control.

Reclining in the Captain’s Chair resulted in an act of contortionism that Houdini would have envied. The back of the chair would recline past horizontal, bending the spine of the uninitiated into an almost impossible position. At times one could hear distinct cracking noises and a deep, guttural “sprooiinngg” when adjusting the lever. The seat likewise relinquished its comfortable flatness. An incredible smell filled the flaring nostrils of every unsuspecting victim. A combination of beer, smoke, sweat and old food resulted in a greasy, pungent odor that was not, at least to me, entirely unpleasant. While others smelled the filth of a dozen dirty socks, I smelled memories. In that chair I had spent quality, bachelor time. Once, I spilled a plate mounded with macaroni and cheese in the seat. Laziness was my motto and cleaning was against my religion. I scraped the macaroni off of the seat and considered it good enough. I smoked so many cigarettes that a constant slate-gray haze hung in my apartment, resembling a Pink Floyd concert at Market Square Arena. Many nights I came home from work and fell asleep with a beer cradled between my legs. In the morning I would wake up to a wet seat and a wet crotch. These were memories only a bachelor could cherish.

When I married my wife, the marriage to the chair dissolved. She did not see any of the Captain’s beauty. She did not share my fondness for the Captain’s Chair and the chair somehow knew. When we moved into our new house, my poor chair was banished to the basement. It was akin to an old-folk’s home for chairs. “El Capitan” had been retired. The day I took the Captain’s Chair to the curb was a sad, melancholy one. As I recall it was overcast and rain was beginning to spot the driveway. Large item trash pick-up felt like a funeral procession to me and I kept waiting to hear the dirge. In the end the Captain did not go with dignity. Sprawled out like a cheap centerfold and covered with cat hair, my chair had died a gruesome death. It was time. I said goodbye to my old friend and as I walked away from the curb I thought I heard the Captain sigh and felt a distinct pull. It was almost like my chair was saying, “C’mon, one more time. Have a seat. Kick off your shoes and stay a while.”

I now have a $1500 hunter-green, leather chair with a seat so soft I feel like I might sink in to the point of disappearing. It is a good chair and with the matching ottoman, looks presentable in our living room. I am slowly but methodically molding it to my specifications. The seat is beginning to lean and the back is starting to rip. I even managed to burn a hole in the arm (and I hear about it incessantly, let me tell you). In the life cycle of chairs, however, this chair is still in diapers. I look forward to making more memories in this chair but it will never be able to replace the Captain’s Chair.

I really loved that chair.

Freedom Is Not Free

Mon, 31 May 2010 00:00:00 -0400

Freedom Is Not Free
By LCDR Kelly Strong, USCG – Copyright 1981

I watched the flag pass by one day,
It fluttered in the breeze.
A young Service man saluted it,
And then he stood at ease.

I looked at him in uniform
So young, so tall, so proud,
With hair cut square and eyes alert
He’d stand out in any crowd.

I thought how many men like him
Had fallen through the years.
How many died on foreign soil
How many mothers’ tears?

How many pilots’ planes shot down?
How many died at sea
How many foxholes were soldiers’ graves?
No, freedom isn’t free.

I heard the sound of Taps one night,
When everything was still,
I listened to the bugler play
And felt a sudden chill.

I wondered just how many times
That Taps had meant “Amen,”
When a flag had draped a coffin.
Of a brother or a friend.

I thought of all the children,
Of the mothers and the wives,
Of fathers, sons and husbands
With interrupted lives.

I thought about a graveyard
At the bottom of the sea
Of unmarked graves in Arlington.
No, freedom isn’t free.

I vote for this guy...

Tue, 25 May 2010 00:00:00 -0400

Since it’s (apparently) no longer important that the President of the United State be a natural born citizen, I hereby nominate Australian Prime Minister Kevin Rudd as our next president. Here is a quote from Mr. Rudd that explains in very clear terms why.

‘IMMIGRANTS, NOT AUSTRALIANS, MUST ADAPT. Take it or leave it. I am tired of this nation worrying about whether we are offending some individual or their culture. Since the terrorist attacks on Bali, we have experienced a surge in patriotism by the majority of Australians. This culture has been developed over two centuries of struggles, trials and victories by millions of men and women who have sought freedom.’

‘We speak mainly ENGLISH, not Spanish, Lebanese, Arabic, Chinese, Japanese, Russian, or any other language. Therefore, if you wish to become part of our society, learn the language!’

‘Most Australians believe in God. This is not some Christian, right wing, political push, but a fact; because Christian men and women, on Christian principles, founded this nation, and this is clearly documented. It is certainly appropriate to display it on the walls of our schools. If God offends you, then I suggest you consider another part of the world as your new home, because God is part of our culture.’

‘We will accept your beliefs, and will not question why. All we ask is that you accept ours, and live in harmony and peaceful enjoyment with us.’

‘This is OUR COUNTRY, OUR LAND, and OUR LIFESTYLE, and we will allow you every opportunity to enjoy all this. But once you are done complaining, whining, and griping about Our Flag, Our Pledge, Our Christian beliefs, or Our Way of Life, I highly encourage you take advantage of one other great Australian freedom, ‘THE RIGHT TO LEAVE’.’

‘If you aren’t happy here then LEAVE. We didn’t force you to come here. You asked to be here. So accept the country YOU accepted.

Now understand that Mr. Rudd would likely never accept such a nomination. Why? HE LOVES HIS COUNTRY! However, I submit that an American citizen who is similarly impassioned about his/her country is just what the United States of America needs right now. That person, regardless of ancestry, has my vote. RJC

Vox Popoli: Deliver Us From Evil

Thu, 04 Feb 2010 00:00:00 -0500

Vox Popoli: Deliver Us From Evil:

I read Vox Popoli most every day and I especially enjoyed this.

Technology

Fri, 01 Jan 2010 00:00:00 -0500

Vehym Vyhdyco Nulgc!

WooHoo! Final Fantasy XIII coming to PS3 on 3/9/10! Can’t wait for that! I’ve been playing Final Fantasy since FFI way back when. (90/91? Something like that) Seems like technology has advanced almost unbelievably since then. The first game was awesome on the first Nintendo – it came with a big giant fold out map – that is, a paper map. On the other side, if I remember correctly, was the beastiary.

Anyway – my wife, my oldest daughter and I were watching Stephen King’s The Langoliers and my daughter mentioned that she knew this movie was old. (If you consider 1995 old, that is!) She could tell by the way the credits rolled on the screen. (Not to mention the primitive special effects) I mentioned that it was possible to date certain movies by the technology used on the set. In The Langoliers there are no laptops, no cellphones, etc. One of the main characters is trying to use a pay phone – at a bank of pay phones. I remember seeing banks of pay phones like that in airports. They’re not there anymore. When is the last time you saw an actual phone booth?

I love technology. I run Linux on a fairly new computer with two 24″ flatscreen monitors. I have Verizon’s MiFi in the house because the only high speed internet alternative where I live is satellite internet. (Until I got the MiFi for Christmas, we used HughesNet Satellite – if you’re considering HughesNet…RUN. RUN AWAY NOW!) As soon as I can afford to do so, I’m going to buy a router that will allow me to get around the 5 connection limitation on the MiFi. In my house there are 7 computers, two flatscreen TV’s, an iPhone, a Crackberry, an iPod Touch and a classic iPod, two PS2 consoles, a Wii, and now a PS3. I run two websites, have a Facebook presence, a Twitter account (@spiritualbully) and can’t wait for the Google Chrome OS! My point is that I love technology! (and it loves my checking account. )

Despite my love of technology, I can’t help but feel a little bit forlorn when I consider it. My kids are growing up with all of this. Indeed, they really don’t have any idea what it’s like to not have all of this stuff. They have always had a computer to access. They’ve always had the internet to do research for school papers. They have always known what an MP3 is. I remember a time when none of this existed. I remember phone booths. I remember when there were no diet sodas. I remember when you could work on your car yourself. I remember when nobody knew what an ATM was and you had to actually go inside the bank to get money. I took typing in high school – not keyboarding – although I remember that we got computers my senior year (TRS80′s). I remember all of this, and I’m only in my 40′s.

I don’t really know exactly what I’m trying to say – other than just to marvel at the unrelenting march of technology and maybe to pine a little bit for a world that was simpler before that march intensified so drastically. Technology is fascinating and awesome. I just wish it didn’t have to interfere with life so much. Can anyone relate? RJC

"Dear Mr. President: I’m planning to move my family and extended family into Mexico for my health,..."

Sun, 25 Oct 2009 00:00:00 -0400

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Dear Mr. President:

I’m planning to move my family and extended family into Mexico for my health, and I would like to ask you to assist me. We’re planning to simply walk across the border from the U.S. into Mexico, and we’ll need your help to make a few arrangements.

We plan to skip all the legal stuff like visas, passports, immigration quotas and laws. I’m sure you handle those things the same way you do here. So, would you mind telling your buddy, President Calderon, that I’m on my way over?
Please let him know that I will be expecting the following:

1. Free medical care for my entire family.
2. English-speaking government bureaucrats for all services I might need, whether I use them or not.
3. Please print all Mexican government forms in English.
4. I want my grandkids to be taught Spanish by English-speaking (bilingual) teachers. Tell their schools they need to include classes on American culture and history.
5. I want my grandkids to see the American flag on one of the flagpoles at their school.
6. Please plan to feed my grandkids at school for both breakfast and lunch.
7. I will need a local Mexican driver’s license so I can get easy access to government services.
8. I do plan to get a car and drive in Mexico, but, I don’t plan to purchase car insurance, and I probably won’t make any special effort to learn local traffic laws.
9. In case one of the Mexican police officers does not get the memo from their president to leave me alone, please be sure that every patrol car has at least one English-speaking officer.
10. I plan to fly the U.S. flag from my housetop, put U.S. flag decals on my car and have a gigantic celebration on July Fourth. I do not want any complaints or negative comments from the locals.
11. I would also like to have a nice job without paying any taxes, or have any labor or tax laws enforced on any business I may start.
12. Please have the president tell all the Mexican people to be extremely nice and never say critical things about me or my family, or about the strain we might place on their economy.
13. I want to receive free food stamps.
14. Naturally, I’ll expect free rent subsidies.
15. I’ll need income tax credits, so although I don’t pay Mexican taxes, I’ll receive money from the government.
16. Please arrange it so that the Mexican government pays $4,500 to help me buy a new car.
17. Oh, yes, I almost forgot, please enroll me into the Mexican Social Security program so that I’ll get a monthly income in retirement.

I know this is an easy request because you already do these things for all his people who walk over to the U.S. from Mexico. I am sure that President Calderon won’t mind returning the favor if you ask him nicely.

Thank you so much for your kind help. You the man!!

”

- Found this and though it was great! Enjoy. RJC

H1N1

Sun, 25 Oct 2009 00:00:00 -0400

Here it comes, America. Roll up your sleeves and prepare for an injection from your government. They know what’s best, right? RJC

President Obama declares national emergency over swine flu pandemic, but why?

Don't Trust Them!

Mon, 19 Oct 2009 00:00:00 -0400

Time to get your news about the world from some other source. RJC

The hapless, clueless media: “Exclusive: Joseph Farah declares, ‘arrogance’ of press is breathtaking”

No, really...Get Your News Elsewhere!

Mon, 19 Oct 2009 00:00:00 -0400

White House boasts: We ‘control’ news media: “‘The tactic was. … making the press cover what we were saying’”

Whew!

Sat, 10 Oct 2009 00:00:00 -0400

What a day yesterday was! We shot the moon, sold a piece of America to the Chinese and learned that if you are really good at reading speeches from a tele-prompter you can win a Nobel peace prize!

This Woman Gets It...

Sat, 19 Sep 2009 00:00:00 -0400

This Woman Gets It...:

Rush: You’re wrong on this one: “Exclusive: Kimberly Fletcher disagrees with radio host about what motivates tea partiers”

Lamestream Media

Mon, 14 Sep 2009 00:00:00 -0400

Lamestream Media:

If you’re getting your news from the mainstream media…you are, at best, getting only a piece of the news – at worst, being misled. Word to the wise…RJC

The shameful non-coverage of 9/12: “Exclusive: Joseph Farah warns, media won’t be able to ignore popular uprising”

What Is A Spiritual Bully?

Sat, 12 Sep 2009 00:00:00 -0400

The answer to that question ostensibly depends upon which side of the Pastor’s desk you find yourself. One Tuesday evening I found myself on the (apparently) wrong side of that desk. You see, I was accused of being just such a bully. Here’s my list of crimes:

I refuse to be controlled.
I find it disgusting that a member of any congregation can leave his/her brain on the coat rack in the vestibule during the church service and then pick it up on the way out.
I am not afraid to ask the Pastor difficult questions – especially when they are spiritual in nature – and I won’t be coerced into simply accepting a falsehood.
I believe that it’s unnecessary to consult the Pastor on every decision I make.
I do not believe that the Pastor and his family are royalty. Anointed? Yes. A leader? Yes. A king? No. A shepherd? No. (There is only One Shepherd – thank you for that clarification Pastor Miller!)

There are other infractions that we might delve into later – but for now, this is my rap sheet. Now I’m positive my former Pastor believes differently. Here is my interpretation of the above-mentioned crimes through my former Pastor’s eyes:

He refuses to submit.
He’s a thinker and that’s OK in moderation – as long as it doesn’t interfere with that submission thing I mentioned before, especially during the service.
He asks for chapter and verse on things that really don’t matter. When I tell him that it’s not in the Bible “per se” he continues to try to usurp my authority when I tell him that he just needs to accept “the spirit behind” what I was saying.
He didn’t come and ask me for help when it’s obvious (to me) that he needs it.
He didn’t kiss my wife’s butt.

Before this digresses into something that I’ll regret later – I think that’s all I’m going to say about the matter. I’ll try not to dwell here. You see…even though my former Pastor and I parted ways on unpleasant terms (and it still remains that way), I have an incredible amount of respect for him. He led me to Christ and Christ did what He does best…He changed my life. Enough said.

I haven’t yet decided exactly what I’m going to do with this blog. Regardless of where it goes, I hope you’ll join me so we can find out together. RJC

Don't Tell Me What's Appropriate

Fri, 12 Jun 2009 00:00:00 -0400

There are inappropriate reactions in life…this is certain. Laughing in your (soon-to-be former) best friend’s face while he grieves at his wife’s funeral is inappropriate. Shouting “FIRE!” in a crowded theater when there is no fire is not only inappropriate but illegal – and for good reason.

When one of my kids gets hurt, my reaction is one of anger. After I make sure they’re OK, nothing broken…no gushing blood, I am angry. Why shouldn’t I be? This is a person that I love dearly and someone or something is hurting them. The person hurting them might even be someone else that I love. That’s almost worse than if it was a complete stranger. After all, relatives and loved ones are supposed to love, not hurt, one another.

I recently reacted angrily and callously to a suicide attempt. I was told that my response was inappropriate and that I should show some compassion. I disagree. Attempted suicide is weak. (Yes…I know that the “experts” don’t agree…two words: DON’T CARE) If you’re going to do it – do it! None of this mamsy-pamsy, cry-for-help nonsense. Plain and simple…if you need help, get it. If you’re in a bad situation – leave it. Otherwise, don’t bother with the drama.

A person who finds themselves in an impossible situation deserves help. However, a person who insists on wallowing in the slop of an impossible situation…refusing said help…refusing to listen to the voice of reason/experience/authority…deserves to get that slop all over them.

Here’s what God says about it:

Proverbs 26:11 (KJV) – As a dog returneth to his vomit, so a fool returneth to his folly.

My reaction is not inappropriate. Leave the vomit. RJC

In The End...

Tue, 03 Feb 2009 00:00:00 -0500

In the end, nothing much matters except relationship.

How does one experience a deep, personal relationship with someone without knowing that person’s name? True – it’s possible to have an interaction with a nameless person – the policeman, the lady at the bookstore, the person who makes your coffee at Starbucks. Interaction, however, is vastly different than relationship. My wife is Anita – she’s not “the person I see every night at supper.”

Acts 4:12 (KJV)Neither is there salvation in any other: for there is none other name under heaven given among men, whereby we must be saved.

There you have it. His name. The name. Jesus. The key to having a relationship with God is knowing His name. Anything short of that knowledge merely qualifies as interaction.

That’s it. It’s not about fitting in. It’s not about the hair or the dress or anything else. All of these “extras” are simply a distraction from what really matters. His name is what matters. All things are subject to His name. All things in heaven, on earth and below the earth.

Dear God ~
Help me to remember that it’s all about You. Help me to rekindle our relationship. Your name is not God, Allah, Vishnu, Father, Jehovah, Barack or any other name except one. Your name is Jesus and it is in Your name that I pray. RJC